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Coaching For Emotional Intelligence, PLLC |
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Frequently Asked Questions
Some people have this false belief that you have to be crazy to see a psychologist or go to therapy. This is the most popular misconceptions about the nature of psychotherapy and seeking help. In fact, people seeking help through psychotherapy are individuals looking to better understanding of themselves, their relationship, unhappiness, and emotional pain. A large number of people attending psychotherapy are high functioning, and successful individuals in other areas of life. Seeking professional assistance is a sign of emotional intelligence. Studies and experience indicated that individuals with more severe emotional issues and high level of toxicity are often the most resistant to the therapy and making commitment to the process.
Your honesty, openness, willingness to
discuss your deep issues and being ready to take instruction and
follow direction are the biggest signs of
progress in early part of therapy. Recognizing self-defeating
patterns, including your toxic emotion,
thinking, and habits are second sign of progress. Leaning how to
release yourself from irrational beliefs and moving from
being "stuck" are third sign of progress.
Overcoming your fear, ego and improving
your self-awareness are ultimate sign of progress.
In a goal oriented and focused
psychotherapy there is not any chance of dependency on therapist.
The role of therapist is to be an expert consultant helping you to
build confidence and trust in yourself. You learn skills to be in
charge of your life. "Your Power is in your Control". Trusting your therapist and gaining respect for her/him is a significant factor. Knowledge is important, however, if you do not feel comfortable with the therapist and coach you will not achieve what you intended to reach in therapy. No matter how much education or experience your therapist has, if you do not feel safe, respected, or understood, you will not benefit from therapy. |
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Dr. Al Nazempoor, Personal Coach & Psychotherapist |